Blog · 15 February 2020 · 3 min read

Vote for Madame Caramel

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As a sub and partner I am of course biased as hell. She is the woman that loves and whips me and of course She is the best in my eyes. But let me explain what I have seen over the past 9 years.

I have seen many subs come and go. You have a few categories. First you have the ones that just once want to have a session with the great Madame Caramel. They book a session, express their kinks and come with an open mind to enjoy. Mistress will deliver a beautiful session that they will remember and treasure for the rest of their lives.

Next you have the fetishist that just wants their kinks to be satisfied. That is not what Mistress does. She doesn’t deliver for money, She is living the lifestyle and always puts Her own wishes before the boys’. These boys normally come and go quickly.

But what I want to talk about are the lifestyle subs. This is the area where Mistress truly excels. Come to Her and submit open and freely accepting the training She will give you. You will not only experience what it is to serve in a femdom household in time She will give you the chance to be part of Her life. Serving Her when She wants, attending to Her needs.

I have seen this happen many times and they all have to go, including me, through the learning phases.

  • Enthusiastic no clue what this is all about, trying and failing to serve Mistress
  • Understanding how difficult it is and thinking that they will never be a good boy
  • Understanding that it needs constant training, accepting that you always have to learn.
  • Accepting your place in Mistress Her life as Her trained and obedient servant

Mistress is an expert in motivation using your and Her kinks to go through all of it. Till you are really Hers. A trained sub that knows exactly how to treat his Mistress.

Mistress is not selfish She could keep Her slaves and use them to live the comfortable life of the Goddess She is. Instead I have seen Her matching many Mistresses and subs giving them the happiness of a female led relationship.

As an example I would like to give you Susie Monday. Susie has been with Mistress longer than I have. But I had the honor of seeing many phases of her training. Susie started as TV fetishist looking to be a slut in a safe environment. That is exactly what Mistress gave her. She used Susie a lot in Her dungeon when a sissy was needed. But that was balanced with strict training in the house. Mistress taught her strict protocol serving Her and Her friends. Of course chastity training was the basis, being locked gives you focus on Mistress. Susie also went through the phases of submission and it is only recently that she fully accepted her purpose in Mistress life that was also the moment she received Mistress collar making her forever Hers.

I know many Mistresses and only few can train a man to their full potential. Mistress Her collared slaves are strong, happy, successful men knowing what they want in life and that is serving a Goddess.

So please vote for Mistress at the UK Fetish Awards for best Mistress, (click on the stars) While you are there also vote for the best Dungeon in London, The Hoxton Dungeon Suite.