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Madame Caramel.
Submissive, husband and photographer. Writing since 2018 about chastity, denial and life in a female-led marriage.
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The Key You Keep
A poem for my Mistress. I am not locked away from you. Locked in, and yours, and never wishing for the door.
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October: The Month We All Sit Down
Soon it is October again. The month of the Femdom Ball. The month when the boys are locked. There is something quietly beautiful about knowing we are all wearing the same secret. Across cities, across time zones, cages on, keys elsewhere. A private brotherhood of denial that only we (and the women who hold our…
Released after 40 days
Often I see it coming when Mistress locks me in chastity. When the dynamic is not fully there and I am not that quick on my feet to serve Mistress she corrects me by locking me up. This time it came out of the middle of nowhere “lock yourself boy”. A few minutes later my…
Netherlands Kink Directory
Some news from Mistress, and a project I have watched take shape over a good many late evenings: NL Kink Directory has officially launched. Madame Caramel and Mistress CatastroV built it together, and it went live this week at nlkinkdirectory.nl. It is a central hub for the Dutch kink scene. Mistresses, Masters, TV/CD and trans …
Happy New Year
The start of the New Year is the moment to reflect. So let me take you along to where I am at the moment. At work, things are going really well. Last year I still had multiple roles, but from now on I can fully focus on strategic work. Also, after months of experimenting, we are…
Locktober 2025 – mid point
Of course Mistress requested me locked on the first of October. She always controls my orgasms so I actually already had a head start of 2 weeks. My last cum was a very hot scene in the hot tub with my face buried deep in Mistress her beautiful derriere. It is a gift that…
Finding your female led relationship
Luckily, traditional male-led relationships are becoming less and less the norm. Equality is what most people are seeking—splitting the work and making decisions together as a unit. It sounds great, but it’s not easy to make this work. Life can be simpler when a single person makes the decisions, and as long as that person…
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