Last week it was finally time for the Femdom Ball 2024. As always Mistress changed the format a little bit to make it even a better event. This year we started with a “Meet and Greet”. On a beautiful rooftop in East London we gathered to start of the long weekend. We started with some sun and it was all about catching up. Mistress was quickly talking to her friends and I joined the other boys for a few beers and a good chat, no kink we almost looked vanilla. But almost all ladies had one or more keys around their neck. It so powerful to see the keys and I knew I wasn’t the only one locked for his Mistress.
The next day it was high tea for the Ladies. I was very busy with work. On Saturday we slept in, had lunch and start to dress up. Of course Kalida dropped by for Mistress make-up. That was as always perfect! Time to go to the venue, of course nothing was ready and I could feel Mistress was a bit nervous. Everybody was working hard and a hour later everything was ready. I was in charge of the music again, luckily this time I could just connect with bluetooth so It should be better than last year.
The moment was there the first Ladies arrive, it is such a special moment. I know most of them via Mistress of Twitter wearing fetish seeing them in their beautiful long dresses is something else. I love standing next to Mistress when the Ladies arrive with their subs. We are standing in the middle of London in a hall build to enforce patriarchy and everything is about female beauty and power. The ladies loved and served by their mostly male subs. It is such a powerful sight. It always makes me so proud of my Mistress Wife that she makes this possible let Matriarchy shine.
But I could stand there for long, I had work to do. I needed to get the music for the shows. Some models didn’t show up and I was asked to find a replacement. We needed 4 boys with the same height for one of the shows. Everybody needed to ask something. I did my best to fix everything or at least making sure to shield my Mistress.
We started on time with a welcome word from our Mistress of ceremonies Lady Scarlet and the first show started. It was a flamenco show, I loved to female power Miss Lucia put into her dance. You could see all the Ladies enjoying and the mood of the evening was set. Next we had two fashion shows. That was some beautiful fetish outfits that made the models so beautiful!. I focused on the music and Mistress and it all went fine. The talented Mistress Veinne did a monologue as Medusa. That was a breath taking performance talking about female power and energy, I can just say wow, that was amazing!
The ladies where getting lots of canapes but the boys had to wait. I also didn’t drink anything during the ball. I needed my full focus to get everything going for Mistress. Next was the charity raffle. There where so many amazing gifts. I had my eyes on high quality single tail whip, Mistress could do some damage with that. I also loved the Sardax drawing. I ended up with a new sounding set, let’s hope Mistress put it to good use. So many Ladies had such beautiful gifts it was a great success.
We are already at the end of the ball but not before Goddess Phoenix awarded lifetime achievements awards to several Mistresses. Not everybody was at the ball but Mistress Ezada proudly accepted hers and of course my Mistress Madame Caramel. It is so good to see that hard work for the Femdom community is recognized and awarded. Well done Mistress.
That was the end, time to clean up and go to the after party. Finally I could eat, drink and come back to earth. After an hour I was ready for the party. There was lot’s of play so many whips where cracking on the subs. They where holding on while the Mistresses had big smiles seeing the boys taking the whip. The music was great, the food was good everybody was happy what a great ending for the celebration of Female Domination, thank you Mistress!
I am now 6 years in a Female Led Relationship and Mistress controlled my orgasms from the very first day. It was one of the first things she said, “no cumming without my permission”. It where a few simple words but with a huge impact. It was part of my morning shower ritual; shave, wash, wank. I didn’t really enjoyed it, it was just part of the deal. When I wasn’t tired I would often had a wank in the evening too, watching some bdsm porn. Mistress put an end to all that taking over full control over my body and mind. I liked that, it made me feel close to Mistress but of course the first year I had some hick ups. Mistress made me pay cumtax or whipped me till I promised never to cum again without her consent. That only works for a month and then I would fail her again. Mistress decided it was time for chastity. Because I fly up and down to London all the time I bought my very first bon4, the large version of course. Proudly I wore it under my vanilla clothes and all was good. The trouble was a night, every night my hard-on woke me up and I was in pain. After 3 weeks I was a broken man, horny and tired as hell. Mistress released me for the first time and I was never so great full. I felt the power she had in locking me up it was almost more than I could handle.
Over the years, the desire to cum has been greatly reduced. I am not that bothered anymore with cumming, don’t get me wrong I am still a very sexual person. But release can be in so many forms. When Mistress wants an orgasm it is about that and I don’t need one in return. I am happy when I can help achieving hers. Now Mistress let me cum an average once a month and I am very happy with that.
Dealing with emotions is hard and I fail all the time. But I learned to only focus only on my love for Mistress. The wonderful relationship we have where she totally controls my body and mind. That makes me smile and makes me miss Mistress even more but does gives me a happy feeling. All negative thoughts I push to the background. That would be fine but Mistress loves to control me. She sent me a picture kissing an other boy and I’ll be crying for hours wondering if she still loves me. On the other hand just a small message from Mistress that she loves me, makes me smile for hours. It is that total control over me that Mistress loves about putting me in chastity.
